"Getting Credit For..."

In the Hand Analysis system, the middle finger, called Saturn, has a lot to do with VALUE and WORTH, both what works and what is challenging. 

One aspect, feeling valued or considered worthy, is "getting credit for."

"I feel valued when I receive credit for from somebody else"...see examples below.

Many people have expectations that they will be acknowledged or thanked for taking action. Especially if the action is requested by or insisted upon by another. And particularly if that is a parent or partner such as a spouse. When the acknowledgement doesn't happen, there can be anger, resentment, frustration, feeling less than, feeling distant, isolating from the person(s) with the requests of you. How do you deal with it?

I was in communication with a friend this week who is feeling some challenges around this.

One of the questions I posed is, "Do you feel like you are not getting credit for following the rules? For example, going to college and getting a degree in the field you weren't that excited about yet your parents insisted? You wanted to change majors and your parents wouldn't let you.

Are you angry, frustrated, blaming, judging others because they haven't given you credit for some things they asked you to do or insisted you do and then you did them?

Do you feel unseen? Unheard? Are you judging them because of this?

Are you getting "credit for" going into the job market they desired? Are you receiving credit for/being acknowledged for following "tribal law" and expectations on many topics?

Are you holding anybody "emotionally hostage" for not giving you credit or acknowledging, praising, applauding these choices?

And where else in your life are you feeling undervalued, not seen and/or given credit for your worth and contribution (also a Saturn word)? For example, are you projecting this same feeling of not being seen enough by your spouse? Doing so much at home and not being "given credit for" all you do for the two of you or the family?

Something to consider.

I can so relate to this, more historically than now. It's a big intimacy barrier when I'm expecting somebody to "give me credit" for something they asked me to do or wanted me to and then...no acknowledgement. What???

The antidote, a solution, is to give yourself credit for all the things you want somebody outside of you to acknowledge. Acknowledge YOURSELF.

One of the lessons I've learned in life is that the more I self-acknowledge, give myself credit for, self-applaud, self-appreciate, the less I need it from others. I'm also more available to be "given credit for" because I am in emotional alignment with it. I do it for myself so I am an energetic/vibrational match for receiving from others.

The hand print example below is a Star of Saturn. 

This conversation will be especially relevant you have your right Saturn finger marked as Life Purpose or Life Lesson.

Or having this Gift Marking, the Star of Saturn, also would apply. That is a 6-pointed star sitting under the middle finger anywhere on that mound.

Honor yourself. Give yourself the "credit" you want from others. It will make your life so much easier.

Love
Pamelah